Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Jesus Is the Ultimate Flirt


When I’m ever asked about my favorite (and most embarrassing) memories, my mind goes straight to the experiences in my past with the most tangible moments – walking the Great Wall of China, going head over handle bars on my bike riding down a seemingly huge hill at the golf course, remembering the smoke smell after a huge firework show in my backyard on July 4, cheering my dad on at his basketball games. There’s a million memories that I could recount in the short 22 years I’ve lived on this beautiful planet, but the ones that stick out the most are those that involved things I correlate with my senses. I’m no biology or anatomy expert (I actually somehow skipped taking any sciences in college #WIN), but I guess that assumption seems pretty basic for most people.  

It wasn’t until I was snuggling with a sweet Chi Omega this past weekend at a girls night that it dawned on me how aware God is of this reality. Seeing as He created us humans, He would obviously know how to best connect with us into the depths of our soul, right? Yep. That Creator Guy… He’s a sneaky one! And He knows how to love us best, even when it might not seem like it.

Until a few years (4) ago, I HATED talking about love. I loved the idea of love… because it’s what I received such joy from when I was around my friends. But I for some reason hated talking about it. It made sense in my head that I could share that with others but it confused me a lot when it came to the concept of someone loving me. Because of that reason, God’s love was something I struggled with for a longgggg time. So let’s just say when I had someone in college say, “Let’s figure out our love languages!”… I wasn’t her biggest fan. But I took the stupid test anyway and it told me that I best received love through physical touch and quality time. Psh – how could a test on the internet think it has ANY idea how I best receive love?

As I was sitting in mass this weekend, reflecting on the idea of the way I best receive love, I couldn’t help but think how incredibly good God is at knowing my love language. Disclaimer: I LOVE talking about love now… primarily for this reason. I receive love best in ways that involve physical expression of that; for instance, I’m a HUGE FAN of hugs, snuggles, and everything in between. If you’ve known me for 1 day… you would probably know that about me. But I was praying in preparation for communion this Sunday, and I thought, “Wow, God… you nailed it.” What a gift God has given us to receive Jesus’ body, blood, soul, and divinity in the Eucharist! Jesus is SUCH a flirt in this way. He gets me. And I’d venture to say there’s other ways He has connected with me to show me His love, but this is a biggy. And I know He’s trying to flirt with you too. Now the question is… do we flirt back in response?